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Tips for travelling (and relocating) with your dog

This is Rooney.

He is one unique dog. Right after we adopted him about three years ago, he became very ill. For a while, I wasn’t sure if the poor guy would make it. Luckily, he made a full recovery. But then our neighbors in San Antonio decided to set off fireworks until 1 a.m., making Rooney terrified to venture outside, even if we offered him treats, went out with him…you name it, we tried it. The poor dog just did not want to go outdoors.

Fast-forward two years to last fall. We were trying to plan our move to Las Vegas. We had all kinds of things to worry about, but one of our concerns was how Rooney would deal with the move. Because of his rough start with us, he has never been an adventurous dog. Everything and everyone makes him nervous, with the exception of our immediate family. How would he handle adjusting to a new home? And how on earth would we get him from Point A to Point B?

Here are some tips that we learned along the way when travelling with our dog from San Antonio to Las Vegas. Things went surprisingly well (and I’m pleased to say that Rooney has adjusted just fine to his new home).

1. Research hotels: Under normal circumstances, if you were driving from San Antonio to Vegas, you could drive until you’d had enough and then worry about finding a place to stay. However, travelling with a dog requires extra planning. It seems like every hotel has a different policy regarding pets: some don’t allow pets at all, some allow dogs under 50 lbs., others require a deposit, and a few allow dogs of any size without a pet deposit or extra fees. Research and book hotels ahead of time so that you won’t be stuck without a place to stay.

2. Buy a portable travel kennel: I know some people don’t believe dogs should be crated at night. However, we were glad we’d gotten a fold-up, lightweight travel kennel for Rooney to use when we stayed in hotels along our route. Since he is a nervous dog, I think it gave him a sense of security to have his own little spot to sleep at night. It also ensured that he wouldn’t destroy the hotel room. You never know what dogs will do when they get nervous or are in unfamiliar surroundings.

3. Have a plan for the car ride: When going on a road trip with your pet, it’s important to make sure the dog can’t bound around the entire car. Not only is this unsafe for the dog, it can also distract the driver. There are all kinds of fancy contraptions you can buy at pet stores to keep your dog in the backseat: there are seat belts, harnesses, and even mesh nets that block off the back seat from the front of the car without obstructing the driver’s view. For us, we were able to put Rooney in the back of our SUV and raise the headrests in the back seat. He wasn’t able to jump over the seat, yet he had lots of room for the long drive.

4. Consider extra costs: Travelling with your pet will add some additional costs to your trip. Fees and pet deposits at hotels, boarding fees if you are in a situation where you can’t find a pet-friendly hotel, extra immunizations that might be required before your trip…all of these expenses add up. Plan accordingly!

5. Allow extra time to get to your destination: Travelling with a pet is a bit like travelling with a small child. You’ll have to make frequent stops that you might have skipped otherwise. Don’t rush things in an attempt to have an extra day or two at your destination (or to get to your new hometown faster, if you’re moving). The journey is part of the fun, so enjoy it!

Have you travelled or relocated to a new state with your pet? Have any tips you’d like to add?

Vegas, Baby!

Well, we made it! We’re in Las Vegas! (Oh shoot. That reminds me…I forgot to call my dad to tell him we’re here. Hi, Dad!)

The drive went smoothly. We stopped three nights along the way, in Fort Stockton, Albuquerque, and Flagstaff. We also stopped in Roswell just for the afternoon where we made a quick trip to the International UFO Museum and bought E. a glow in the dark alien t-shirt.

One thing I wasn’t expecting on the drive was how different it would be with a dog. Stops had to be either quick or pet-friendly. Hotel nights were always nerve-wracking since we hoped the dog wouldn’t go crazy and bark or whine. We had to worry about his eating habits since travel made the dog nervous and he stopped eating for a day.

I know there are people who love traveling with their pets, but I don’t think we’ll try it again anytime soon!

The 1,300 mile drive was a great experience and we saw some beautiful scenery along the way, especially in northern New Mexico and Arizona. But I’m happy to be here in Las Vegas.

We made it! Let’s begin the next chapter…

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One Foot Out the Door

Those dramatic red cliffs in the Nevada travel guide definitely caught my eye. I’m going to live there?! As someone who lived in the Midwest until the age of 29, I think southern Nevada seems very exotic. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve looked at Las Vegas on a map and marveled about the fact that it’s near national parks like Zion, Death Valley, and Mojave. After we move, I’ll be able to visit all of these places fairly easily, and it’s an adventure I can’t wait to begin.

But sometimes I worry that I’m starting the adventure prematurely. We still have six months left here in San Antonio. That’s a lot of time that I need to be appreciating, not simply wishing-away. I can’t let myself get so preoccupied with the future that I miss out on the present.

On the other hand, it’s important to have fun things to look forward to, right? I actually enjoy the whole moving process. I love planning ahead, finding a home, plotting our drive to our new city, and scheduling the movers. Maybe I should just let myself get wrapped up in the moving excitment.

Right now, I’m trying to find that balance between planning ahead and focusing on this summer. My daughter will only be four-years-old once. We’ll only spend one more summer in San Antonio. I need to make sure I don’t miss it and that I leave Texas with no regrets.

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Photos from the World War II Memorial, Veterans Day Information

WWII Memorial, DC

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Please remember that Thursday, November 11, 2010 is Veterans Day. If you are near Washington on that day, you can attend the National Ceremony at Arlington Cemetery. Or, to find observances in your area, click here.

If you’re in San Antonio, you can attend a ceremony at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery. For more information, call (210) 820-3891.

For information on cemetery etiquette, especially at national cemeteries, read this article from the Houston Chronicle.

Thank you to all of the men and women who have chosen to serve our country.

Photo Friday: Flowers in Little Rock

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It was about a year ago that we drove from Ohio to Texas, stopping along the way in Little Rock, Arkansas. In all likelihood, we’ll be moving again a year from now. I wonder what we’ll discover on our next moving-day(s) road trip?

For more travel photos, stop by the family travel blog Delicious Baby and check out Photo Friday.

Military Life as a Form of Extended Travel

As you can imagine, I read a lot of travel blogs. And of course, I’ve read the posts about how you too can save your money, quit your job, and travel the world. I have to admit that I read these posts with a little bit of envy because, for us, it actually isn’t an option. For military families–who have made the commitment to move when and where they are told and who are unable to travel at the last minute or take open-ended vacations–this form of location-independent living just isn’t possible.

Or is it?

It occurred to me that I might be looking at this the wrong way. Perhaps it is possible. Perhaps I’m in the midst of doing it right now!

If it wasn’t for the military, would we have moved to San Antonio? Would we have visited San Antonio? I’m not sure. I do know that living here has opened my eyes to so many new experiences and sights. And I know for a fact that we never would have lived in our prior home of Dayton. In fact, I’m pretty sure we would have never set foot there if it hadn’t been for the military. Think of all of those friends we met, parks we walked through, and Ohio day-trips we planned that never would have happened if it weren’t for the military.

Who knows where we’ll end up next. That’s part of the adventure! Kind of like those round-the-worlders who don’t know what tomorrow will bring. We may not be backpacking through Europe or couchsurfing in South America, but we’re on an adventure nonetheless.

So, today I’m dreaming of that next place, the next adventure for our family. Check out other traveller’s dreams at the Mother of All Trips and be sure to enter to win a trip to San Antonio!

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Nick and E. at a rest stop somewhere in Arkansas on our way to Texas…a trip we might never have taken were it not for the military.

No Longer Tourists?

As readers of this blog know, we often get in the car at the spur of the moment and wander off into the Hill Country. During our first eight months here in Texas, we visited Boerne, Bandera, Medina, Comfort, Kerrville, Fredericksburg, Gruene, Castroville, Seguin, and Austin. However, we haven’t been doing as many of these mini-road trips lately. The other night I started wondering why.

I realized that things started to change about a month ago. I hosted a playdate at our house. We were invited to a Super Bowl party. I took E. to storytime at the library. I started working-out more often. In other words, we started living here instead of behaving like tourists.

This makes me feel both content and slightly sad. I’m glad that we finally feel like we are residents of San Antonio, have made friends, and have found activities to get involved in. On the other hand, I miss the days when visiting a small town in the Texas countryside seemed like more of an adventure.

But when I really think about it, I have no reason to feel sad. We love where we live, which is something not everyone in the military can say. Unlike many civilian families, we don’t get to choose where we end up. The fact that we like it here so much means we’re pretty fortunate.

Living the military life also means that we probably won’t be here for an extended period of time. Eventually, we’ll move on. There will be new places to see, new friends to meet and, once again, we’ll feel like tourists on a grand adventure.

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